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He said, “Yes, it was scary and hard to leave home for so long. Not long ago, Logan sent a note to other athletes here in Hawaii. It would be very selfish of us as parents to not support him in his pursuit of his dreams and goals.”

We want to be present, and share in all their experiences. “Of course we want our keiki to be as close to us as possible.

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Plus he can FaceTime his family twice a day. It is impossible to imagine that his talent would have been “discovered” two decades ago. A lot of serendipitous incidents need to occur for a goalkeeper from Hawaii island to defend nets in Germany. Logan is lucky to live in the 21st century. For his birthday, his teammates took him out to dinner, and had a great night celebrating him. When he returned to his dorm, he called us on FaceTime as he settled in and said, ‘Mom this was the first time that I didn’t get to hug you on my birthday.’” This was the first birthday since he was born, that he was away from us. “He weighed 2 pounds and 10 ounces when he was born and he was whisked off to (a hospital on) Oahu. “Logan was a preemie, born three months early,” she said. Jacy said it was hard for her when Logan turned 17 in February while he was in Germany and his ohana was in Hawaii. I want to play at the highest level. Coming back home for those moments will take me completely away from that journey, my path.’” On the other hand, I have my love and passion which is soccer. You have this amazing night, and then it’s done. “He said, ‘of course I have times when I think about prom and graduation, but those are merely moments in time. She recalled asking Logan how he felt about missing events. “If your dreams and goals don’t scare you they aren’t big enough.” Goalkeeper Logan Waiau We never had opportunities such as this, and to be honest I don’t believe that we would have pursued it even if we did.” “We grew up attending school here in Hawaii, playing sports, attending proms and graduations. “This is very unorthodox for us as a family,” Jacy said. Jacy, like any parent, can’t help but see her child’s situation through the lens of her own traditional Hawaiian high school experience. When Jacy, Blaze, and Logan’s younger brother, Duke, visited him in Germany over spring break, she told Logan: “Don’t ever in your lifetime make decisions based on pleasing others.

Many families aren’t financially, and just as importantly, emotionally able to support students who receive amazing opportunities. They don’t have the complete support of their families. I was also impressed that Logan’s parents Blaze and Jacy said yes. Logan Waiau is goalkeeper in the Talent Projekt program in Germany.

I was glad that he had the gumption to take on the challenge and truly commit to playing the game at its highest level, 12 time zones away from his ohana. This isn’t going to be a hagiographic profile of a young athlete, but I covered the World Cup in Germany and lived in France for years, so I was happy to know Logan was going to be part of a pedigreed system that develops world-class soccer players. Lee Cataluna wrote a story in February about the organization and its preparations to compete. Logan is the inaugural goalkeeper for the U-18 team of Hui Kanaka Powawae, the Hawaiian Football Federation. I was glad he had found an opportunity outside of Hawaii and had the courage to say yes. This week, I want to share thoughts from a conversation I had with a mother whose 17-year-old son is not just one vast expanse of water away, but two.Īt the start of the school year, I was excited to hear that Logan Waiau, the son of my cousin, Blaze, was in Germany playing goalkeeper at a year-round soccer academy. So far, I’ve highlighted the perspectives of an Ivy League student from Hawaii and the chancellor of the University of Hawaii Hilo. The feedback has been incredibly helpful in shaping my thoughts around the challenge. I truly appreciate the comments, notes and posts in response to those columns. Lately, I’ve been rethinking my mindset, and in the past two columns I’ve challenged my thoughts about expectations and the difficulties of “making it” in Hawaii. My thinking used to be that I wanted young people from Hawaii (and the Pacific) to always seize the chance to go up against top-notch talent and prove not only that they belonged, but that they could thrive.Īnd, ideally, as they thrived they could share and spread concepts from growing up in the Pacific with our distinctive cultures and approaches.